{"id":260,"date":"2007-08-11T10:30:13","date_gmt":"2007-08-11T10:30:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/?p=260"},"modified":"2007-08-11T11:08:40","modified_gmt":"2007-08-11T11:08:40","slug":"building-confidence","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/?p=260","title":{"rendered":"Building confidence."},"content":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve got to borrow a highchair from a couple of friends and I put Jessica in it for the first time on Wednesday (8th August). She looked so small in it (and terribly cute!) but very confident too: sat there with her back straight and one arm on each of the arm rests, as if she was chairing an important meeting.<\/p>\n<p><a title=\"first-time-in-highchair.jpg\" class=\"imagelink\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/first-time-in-highchair.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"first-time-in-highchair.jpg\" id=\"image261\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/first-time-in-highchair.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I have now fed her combinations like raspberry &#038; banana, apple &#038; mango, parsnip &#038; peas, potato &#038; sweet potato as well as porridge mixed with fresh fruit. She still hasn&#8217;t refused anything, though when I was due to feed her avocado the other day she was too tired to be interested in solids (&#8220;just let me have the straightforward bottle of formula, please!&#8221;) and I didn&#8217;t insist as I don&#8217;t want her to get frustrated with the whole food thing. She loves everything involving fruit &#8211; because it&#8217;s sweet I presume&#8230; Porridge mixed with fruit is a hit, too. She leans forward and opens her mouth, barely giving me time to fill the spoon again.<\/p>\n<p>She has cried from frustration a few times, though, at what I&#8217;m assuming is the slow pace of the feed and the lack of control on her part. At times she has grabbed the mug out of my hands &#8211; she obviously knows that&#8217;s where the food comes from &#8211; and tried to drink the puree straight out of it&#8230; I have given her her own spoon and helped her fill it with food, and then she has promptly put it in her mouth. But, of course, she&#8217;s not mastered the skill yet, so most of the food doesn&#8217;t go where it should, plus she can&#8217;t refill the spoon (actually, she did try to once yesterday, but she put the handle down first, so it didn&#8217;t quite work&#8230;).<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;m not sure quite what to do when she cries out of frustration, apart from generally taking things slow and let her set the pace as well as I can. I try to offer the next spoonful as quickly as possible so it&#8217;s up to her how soon she wants to eat it, to let her hold the spoon herself and I obviously don&#8217;t force any food into her mouth or try to pop it in there when she&#8217;s crying. When she cries and I know there&#8217;s tiredness involved, I lift her out of the highchair and give her formula instead.<\/p>\n<p>When it comes to fruit, Jessica has so far had banana, apple, pear, mango, raspberries and nectarine. I have deliberately hesitated about blueberries, as I dread the resulting stains on her muslin squares and clothes&#8230; She&#8217;s not throwing up quite as much as she used to &#8211; this was actually the case even before the weaning started. But she still does throw up and instead of only milk-coloured stains on everything we now have orange for carrot and sweet potato, red for raspberries and green for broccoli and peas&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"imagelink\" title=\"playing-in-the-ring-in-garden-2.jpg\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/playing-in-the-ring-in-garden-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"image262\" alt=\"playing-in-the-ring-in-garden-2.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/playing-in-the-ring-in-garden-2.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a> <a title=\"playing-in-the-ring-in-garden.jpg\" class=\"imagelink\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/playing-in-the-ring-in-garden.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"playing-in-the-ring-in-garden.jpg\" id=\"image263\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/playing-in-the-ring-in-garden.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><br \/>\n<a title=\"favorurite-toy-in-the-ring.jpg\" class=\"imagelink\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/favorurite-toy-in-the-ring.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"favorurite-toy-in-the-ring.jpg\" id=\"image264\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/favorurite-toy-in-the-ring.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a> <a title=\"jessica-often-stops-to-look-at-the-giraffe.jpg\" class=\"imagelink\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/jessica-often-stops-to-look-at-the-giraffe.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"jessica-often-stops-to-look-at-the-giraffe.jpg\" id=\"image265\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/jessica-often-stops-to-look-at-the-giraffe.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I don&#8217;t know if it&#8217;s one of those general baby things (obviously a modern day one, if it is), but Jessica is completely fascinated by my mobile phone and will drop any toy if she spots it. She&#8217;ll grab for it straight away if it&#8217;s within reach and try to put it in her mouth. I&#8217;ll hazard a guess and say that she&#8217;s picked up on the fact that I find it so interesting: she sees me clicking the buttons and staring at the screen and feels like she wants in on the game. But I can&#8217;t let her play with it, really. I&#8217;m not sure about the radiation issue of having the mobile that close to her little brain. Also, she dribbles all over it and I&#8217;m not sure how waterproof it is. Yesterday she started to cry when I took it away &#8211; that&#8217;s the first time she&#8217;s ever reacted that way to anything she is playing with being removed.<\/p>\n<p>Jessica has gone a step further in her development regarding rolling: in the last couple of days we have seen her do it deliberately a few times and looking mightily pleased with herself! Once on her tummy she&#8217;s looked all around her, emitted happy little shrieks and proceeded to grab at the nearest object. She likes lying on her tummy on the grass &#8211; I guess it&#8217;s a fairly new surface compared to carpets and rugs. She&#8217;ll tear at the grass, filling her hand and getting it all over herself, and afterwards I seem to find grass everywhere: on her toys, her rug, the nappy changing mat, her mouth&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>When in the garden it has moved from the &#8216;see but not touch&#8217; approach to a much more hands-on one &#8211; she&#8217;s been touching leaves for a while but nowadays she tears at them, ripping leaves of branches and either putting them in her mouth or dropping them on the floor. She can also grab a branch and then thrash it around for a while. One of us often takes her for a walk around the garden before bedtime and you can tell when she&#8217;s getting tired and fed-up and it&#8217;s time for bed: then she thrashes branches about without even looking at them, with a firm grip and a stern face.<\/p>\n<p><a class=\"imagelink\" title=\"with-daddy-in-garden-1.jpg\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-1.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"image268\" alt=\"with-daddy-in-garden-1.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-1.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><a class=\"imagelink\" title=\"with-daddy-in-garden-2.jpg\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-2.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"image267\" alt=\"with-daddy-in-garden-2.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-2.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><a class=\"imagelink\" title=\"with-daddy-in-garden-3.jpg\" href=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-3.jpg\"><img decoding=\"async\" id=\"image266\" alt=\"with-daddy-in-garden-3.jpg\" src=\"http:\/\/ianandgabriella.co.uk\/babyblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2007\/08\/with-daddy-in-garden-3.thumbnail.jpg\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Jessica splashes a lot more in the bath now, deliberately whacking her arms against the surface and kicking her legs and watching the effect. It&#8217;s fun to watch her play: she smiles and giggles. Her Mum gets pretty much soaked every time, so I&#8217;ve started to strip down to my underwear to bathe her. Jessica is getting a bit too long for the baby bath and as soon as she&#8217;s confident sitting up without support, I&#8217;ll go in the big bath with her &#8211; that&#8217;s bound to be easier all around.<\/p>\n<p>Gabriella<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We&#8217;ve got to borrow a highchair from a couple of friends and I put Jessica in it for the first time on Wednesday (8th August). 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